This has been long.......yet.
Alright today somehow I know what I am going to talk about....so here it is.....I was just watching a movie and suddenly got this idea.
We have cards, greeting cards.......fashion of exchanging cards I feel is diminishing slowly. The reason might be multiple. keep thinking and new will be coming.
But what I think just like there are greeting cards, there should be something like ungreeting cards.......cards which convey the feelings which are genuine and not pleasant. Love, Compassion, Praise etc. are superb feelings and there are cards for them but I guess similarly hate, disgust, disappointment and apathy too are feelings which we can't evade and feels some reason to be conveyed to other beings, specially those who are related to that.
Putting(Read Starting) mildly there should be a card like "Leave me alone" card. I so very much feel the need of this card..... Suppose someone is playing adhesive to you, someone is too impressed with you, someone bugs you every now and then for whatever fucking reason, Someone keep referring you to others, someone keep planning events where he/she falls in the same group/way. You understand all that and genuinely want to convey to that person or group of person that.....just Leave me alone.
Yes, you can say it. but then you have to bear the sudden feedback and reactions which you have no reason to bear. you can text him, mail him or other means......but then cards are more classy and in these scenarios presumably effective too.
Dear whoever,
I really am flattered with your addiction with myself, but you must understand that its annoying sometimes when someone takes you as their pet or private property or want to own you or want to get owned by you, Of course it's not the case with you and to make sure that it does not become so............Leave me alone.
Distantly yours,
me
I think this would do. It would convey the message with the least amount of offense. Also it would make them more aware about how people are taking their behavior.
Let's talk about some other types
Get a life card - This card should be provided to the people who suggests some perverse or disgusting actions habitually or intentionally. It would also suit on people who try to demean others and feels the essence of superiority however from others' point of view they are total jackass while doing so.
I don't like you card - This card I guess should be used very carefully and only when apt. There are people whom we genuinely don't like. They don't mean any harm to us. They are just normal people but say you don't like them. Their way of talking/laughing/working/dressing/eating etc. This card must be used with least malafide intentions.
Fuck yourself card - This would be close second in term of potency and feelings to the "I Love You" card I suppose. As we all gets this feeling more often to various person but we digest it and hence puts a burden on our subconscious. This card if exchanged between couples can be called "Break-up card" because that would be evident. However it would save you a little drama if its in the form of card and isn't said directly. Caution : This card should be avoided as much as possible in professional and business world because when the scene changes which does changes in professional world quite often, someone might return the card to you and that won't be pleasant.
Alright today somehow I know what I am going to talk about....so here it is.....I was just watching a movie and suddenly got this idea.
We have cards, greeting cards.......fashion of exchanging cards I feel is diminishing slowly. The reason might be multiple. keep thinking and new will be coming.
But what I think just like there are greeting cards, there should be something like ungreeting cards.......cards which convey the feelings which are genuine and not pleasant. Love, Compassion, Praise etc. are superb feelings and there are cards for them but I guess similarly hate, disgust, disappointment and apathy too are feelings which we can't evade and feels some reason to be conveyed to other beings, specially those who are related to that.
Putting(Read Starting) mildly there should be a card like "Leave me alone" card. I so very much feel the need of this card..... Suppose someone is playing adhesive to you, someone is too impressed with you, someone bugs you every now and then for whatever fucking reason, Someone keep referring you to others, someone keep planning events where he/she falls in the same group/way. You understand all that and genuinely want to convey to that person or group of person that.....just Leave me alone.
Yes, you can say it. but then you have to bear the sudden feedback and reactions which you have no reason to bear. you can text him, mail him or other means......but then cards are more classy and in these scenarios presumably effective too.
Dear whoever,
I really am flattered with your addiction with myself, but you must understand that its annoying sometimes when someone takes you as their pet or private property or want to own you or want to get owned by you, Of course it's not the case with you and to make sure that it does not become so............Leave me alone.
Distantly yours,
me
I think this would do. It would convey the message with the least amount of offense. Also it would make them more aware about how people are taking their behavior.
Let's talk about some other types
Get a life card - This card should be provided to the people who suggests some perverse or disgusting actions habitually or intentionally. It would also suit on people who try to demean others and feels the essence of superiority however from others' point of view they are total jackass while doing so.
I don't like you card - This card I guess should be used very carefully and only when apt. There are people whom we genuinely don't like. They don't mean any harm to us. They are just normal people but say you don't like them. Their way of talking/laughing/working/dressing/eating etc. This card must be used with least malafide intentions.
Fuck yourself card - This would be close second in term of potency and feelings to the "I Love You" card I suppose. As we all gets this feeling more often to various person but we digest it and hence puts a burden on our subconscious. This card if exchanged between couples can be called "Break-up card" because that would be evident. However it would save you a little drama if its in the form of card and isn't said directly. Caution : This card should be avoided as much as possible in professional and business world because when the scene changes which does changes in professional world quite often, someone might return the card to you and that won't be pleasant.
